I remember before I met my husband I had a list of criteria that I wanted my future husband to have.
I don't have my cheat sheet any more but I know I wanted a tall guy... I got it. I know I wanted an intelligent guy....I got it. I know I wanted to somebody that will support me in whatever I do....I got it.
I don't think it is coincidence. I believe you need to know in life what you want otherwise you get something else. Unsurprisingly, my favourite saying is "if you don't know where you are going how will you know when you have arrived"
It is true in my case. I knew who I wanted and God gave my husband to me. Of course you have to remember that sometimes you don't get what we want but what we NEED.
I for example I wanted somebody that can let me leave the conversation when there is a disagreement but my husband is a "Philosopher". He has studied Philosophy and trust me he knows how to convince you. Since I married to him he taught me that running away is not the best solution. We can achieve more by talking things through.
It is true in my case. I knew who I wanted and God gave my husband to me. Of course you have to remember that sometimes you don't get what we want but what we NEED.
I for example I wanted somebody that can let me leave the conversation when there is a disagreement but my husband is a "Philosopher". He has studied Philosophy and trust me he knows how to convince you. Since I married to him he taught me that running away is not the best solution. We can achieve more by talking things through.
You see, I got what I NEEDED not what I wanted.
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