It's not a secret that my parents have never followed any religion and we only went to church when somebody got married in the family. I've grown up in an environment where Christianity was something very weird that only weird people do.

So when I met my husband I wasn't really excited about going to church with him. But as deeply I believed in what I was taught as quickly my view has changed. Today I'm the first person in the house that get up on Sunday mornings and I am the one that makes sure we are not running late. (Even when my husband was working the night before and he only came back home at 5.00 am.)

So all in all I love going to church now and I'm OK with everything that is coming with it, even fasting. Today I would like to talk about fasting because my church has a 7 days prayer and fasting programme on at the moment.

I remember when my husband first asked me to fast with him. I thought he was joking because I've never fasted in my life before! Finally I joined him but I had a difficult time finding information on the nature of a Biblical fast, how to start, what to expect physically and spiritually, and how to terminate a fast. I'd like to share with you what I've learnt about fasting.

A fast is abstinence from an object or objects of your choice for a fixed duration. That object can be anything, for example, a person can fast from food and water for a day or longer. This is the traditional fast. This is the fast well known and popular among Believers. This duration also include other activities like prayer, Bible reading and memorization of selected Scriptures and meditation on the Word of God.

Fasting is the most powerful of all Christian disciplines and Christians believe God may have something very special to show us as we wait upon Him and seek His face. The only thing is that Satan does not want us to grow in our faith, and will do anything from making us hungry and grumpy to bringing up trouble in our family or at work to stop us.
We have to be aware that Satan will do everything he can to pull us away from prayer and Bible reading time.

I personally still find it quite difficult to fast but  my trick is that when I feel the enemy trying to discourage me, immediately I go to God in prayer and ask Him to strengthen me. This makes it easier for me to deal with the physical discomforts of fasting.


One in ten British children now is mixed race and as some of you know my son is mixed race too. I'm from Hungary and his daddy is from Nigeria. When I look at my boy, I can see his beautiful brown skin that is  darker than mine and his hair that is quite straight, not like most mixed race kids I know. Those kids have a slight curl/wave to their hair texture but they still share in the same ancestral history as other white people.

I must say sadly, I think its a shame when I hear white people and even black people, refer to mixed race people as "black". It's hurting me a bit because my boy is just as much white as he is black. Yet, the world view him as a black boy.

Apart from that I love the fact that my son has mixed heritage. I recently watched a documentary on Channel4 about mixed race people and I learnt the following:
"Mixed-race children make up one of the fastest growing ethnic minorities in the UK. According to some census experts the number of mixed-race people in Britain will double between 2001 and 2020, when demographers predict it will reach 1.3 million people.

Mixed-race people are among our most famous and high-achieving citizens - there's Sade Adu, Chuka Umunna, Lewis Hamilton and Leona Lewis to name a few.

The British regard people of mixed race as the most attractive and successful, say psychologists."

I like most of the points that they have raised in the documentary and I hope my son will feel blessed being mixed race and become as successful as he is attractive.